I’ve been feeling the pressure lately—trying to reshape how I run my business while juggling a million hats, from writing and staying inspired to studying to become a clinical herbalist.
The truth is, the off-beat, self-made path I’ve chosen can be both empowering and overwhelming—where nothing is guaranteed except waking up every day to pour into the work and hope it all comes together.
I hate mess and imperfection, and honestly, the unknown often gets the better of me. That’s why I turn to Tarot.
It’s my go-to when I feel untethered—my way of finding clarity, grounding myself, and reminding myself I’m still on track, even when life feels like a free-fall. Because if there’s one thing I know, it’s that navigating the unknown takes tools, a little perspective, and a lot of grace.
And since I know I’m not the only one just trying to keep it together, I thought I’d share a simple, month-ahead Tarot spread to help you focus on what’s in your control, let go of what isn’t, and move through the chaos with a little more peace.
"Keeping My Sh*t Together" Tarot Spread
A no-BS tarot spread for navigating the unknown with a little more ease and fewer cataclysmic meltdowns.
1. What’s the vibe?
Your emotional weather forecast for the month ahead. Is it smooth sailing, chaotic, or uneventful? Let’s find out.
2. What’s in my control?
A reality check. What can you actually do this month to keep things from going off the rails? This is where your power lies.
3. What’s out of my control (and how do I not lose it)?
Because the unknown is always lurking (sorry). This card shows what to let go of—and how to not freak out about it.
4. What’s a small win I can aim for?
A manageable, not-overwhelming goal to help you feel like a functioning human. Baby steps—but make it progress.
5. What will actually help me chill the f**k out?
Your personal anxiety antidote. Could be self-care, a much-needed power nap, or just a simple walk.
6. What’s a sign I should look for to know I’m on the right track?
A little cosmic nudge to help you trust that you’re not totally screwing things up.
Tips for Making the Most of this Spread All Month Long:
Writing down your reading is where the magic really happens. Whether you’re like me and love the feel of pen on paper or you prefer snapping a quick pic and dropping it into your notes app (you know, where all your half-baked poems and grocery lists live), just get it down.
Don’t worry about it being neat or profound—it’s about capturing those raw, gut-level insights before they slip away. Over time, these notes become your personal tarot diary—a breadcrumb trail showing how the cards connect the dots of your month (and your year).
Right after your spread, jot down:
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🂱 The cards you pulled and their placements.
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🂱 Your initial reactions, gut feelings, or random thoughts (just brain-dump it).
Then, check back in mid-month or at the end:
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🂱 Did the reading line up with your life?
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🂱 Any patterns, surprises, or aha moments?
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🂱 What helped you keep your sh*t together—and what didn’t?
Journaling doesn’t have to be perfect (spoiler: it won’t be). It’s about showing up for yourself, finding clarity when life feels messy, and realizing the cards have your back every step of the way.
One Last Thing…
I deal with the unknown every day, and Tarot is my trusted advisor when it feels like too much. It reminds me what truly matters—and what I can release.
Life gets messy—it just does. One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned is knowing what to hold onto and what to let go of.
Tarot shows me where I’m gripping too tightly and where I can soften. That distinction—where to focus and what to release—is often what keeps me from spiraling.
It doesn’t erase uncertainty, but it makes it easier to move through. And when everything feels out of bounds, it helps me return to ease, trust, and the reminder that maybe, just maybe, everything is more than okay.
I hope this article—and this quick and dirty tarot spread—becomes a tool you can turn to. If you’re anything like me, sometimes you just need a gentle nudge in the right direction when uncertainty creeps in.
Till next time Mythical One,
-Ayame (あやめ)
